tkdmme, I am in the same position as you, my H told me he wants out 5 months ago but is still here, but completely withdrawn. I am in limbo. Some days are easier than others. Today is very hard for me because I am away on a trip with my kids and he doesn't stay in touch, and I desperately want to call him. Keep busy, it helps. Matt is right, take it one minute at a time. I also am doing 180s and trying to detach. It is so hard, but you are not the only one in this situation. Hang in there!
