Sorry you find yourself here, but you are in good company and will get some really great advice.
Can you tell us more about your W and why she wants out? Also, can you share your ages, how long you have been M, etc like in my signature. You can add signature in my stuff/edit profile.
BW
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015