have i been making mistakes too long

[shnswms]

You came to the right place. Now that you are here, start reading through all of those links Cadet posted. Study them, live them, and learn them. Order Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy, read them. You must detach now. Get.a.Life. You know first hand that pursuing, pleading, begging do not work and turn your wife away. It is time to do the opposite. Right now she doesn't want to talk about a future with you in it. Focus on what you can change and control. You have not mentioned where the relationship veered off? What kind of problems are you having? Do you suspect another man?