I suppose you could ignore it, but that seems cold. Again, back to the friend vs. no friend convo. You would not ignore a friend per my DB coach.
Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
Not bad, better as I know you are just starting.... but I made a couple suggestions.
Agreed - I don't feel that just ignoring her will be effective. We're not NC, so it seems unreasonably harsh. That being said, your timetables of waiting seem much more appropriate.
Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
Do NOT be super available .... a guideline I was given that proved to really help
Gotcha. It's tough because I'm so available for work, it's obvious that I'm ignoring or putting her off. But I suppose that's not a bad thing in this DB situation.
Me: early 30s Her: same M: 5+yrs T:10+yrs D (2): under 10s OM PA - Began Apr/15 A Discovered/ILYBINILWY: Start of May Removed ring: End of June
