Sandi, if your there, what do you think about what my coach says, should I try to keep and build on this friendship. Its good for my d, and when my ww wakes up, we will have that to build on or does it hurt my chances.
If this a Divorce Busting Coach that gave you this advice, I will respectfully disagree and bow out of your thread. Even if I don't agree, I will not publicly argue about it, b/c in earlier posts you got things that had been said mixed/confused. So, I trust the coach has all the facts and will lead you forward.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!