So, I had coffee with WW this morning. We parted ways at 8am, she gave me a cheek kiss, I didn't reciprocate (first time), but did give her a little side hug. I got in my car and drove off, didn't wait for her to drive off first. No contact since then. Then:
W: How's it going? (11:03am) Me: Good! You? (11:05am)(11:45am) W: Super busy but good (11:46am) Me:busy busy - worky worky (12:30pm) This line not required, might be better to leave her hanging than her leaving you hanging as she did.... her reply really did not give reason for you to answer. nice!
No response. Was this the appropriate way to deal with it? I don't want to ignore her (and be an A-hole) - and she knows I'm text/email on my phone all day for work, so I can't play I didn't see it...but I did keet it brief and didn't followup with anything else.
Of course this doesn't feel right to me...but I want to do what works - not what feels right...
Not bad, better as I know you are just starting.... but I made a couple suggestions.
Do NOT be super available .... a guideline I was given that proved to really help
Normal TM: reply 30-90 minutes (You are GAL and really busy living your new life) TM about kids: 20-30 minutes Emergency about kids: immediately
