I have already started to detach hopeful, only responding to things about pur 5 kids and not calling. Acting like i am over it, and moving on like everything is perfectly fine.currently see her every other day though because of my twins.
That is Not the approach I'd suggest for a man who deeply wounded his wife.
Not ALL advice for newbies applies to each situation. This is NOT some "MLC" on her end; it sure seems like a reaction of hers to an action of yours.
Plus, she specifically asked you for some solutions and if you ignore that request you'll do 2 things - you will likely
1) validate her perception of you NOT being a good partner or dad and;
2) force her to seek out a legal remedy from a lawyer who will force you to find solutions you may not exactly love.
Do you get my point?
Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 07/09/1506:25 PM.
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