We agreed to do the once a week thing for the purpose of allowing each other to see our dogs. In our case, they are like our children. She mentioned next time she came back we could do dinner out somewhere. The first meeting was light and relaxed but she did not give up too much information. She didn't talk about separation, divorce, or the future.
As many have already mentioned, I wholeheartedly believe she plans to keep me dangling on the hook, in case her new situation does not work out. Her asking for me to allow physical contact...her trying to be cute and smiling when she left..."Byeeeeee". The jealousy has given me a sign that somewhere down inside she cares for me to some extent.
She called again last night. She played middleman for me to go pickup this kitchen tableset she found. I am going to pick it up today. One of the times she had gotten jealous in our first meeting, I had told her that her friend Sarah told me she could get me a discount on a mattress..then she proceeded to insult her and her husband for the next few minutes. She brought that up again last night on the phone out of nowhere. "Did Sarah help you get that mattress?" I grinned to myself when she said that. I told her that we would have to push the meeting to Friday. She was okay with that.
As I had mentioned earlier, I refurnished my house over the last 2 days. It has put me into a very happy state. You wouldn't even realize that she had lived here recently. My downstairs den looks like a bachelor pad. I got to sleep in a real bed for the first time in a month. If she didn't think I was moving on before this, she definitely will now when she sees our house. I have been doing yoga which has helped me with breathing and relaxation, as well as the added benefit of losing weight.
I plan to act like I am losing interest in her as you suggested. That will definitely draw her in if she is already showing jealousy.
Me: 33 W: 30 T - 12 M - 3 K - 0 BD - 6/14/15 Moved out - 6/14/15
