NDY has done all he could in DBing and his W is steadfast in her resolute to plow ahead divesting the assets through L. The main thing is for NDY is to let W go and focus on himself while maintaining respectful and cordial interactions with W.
Sometimes it does, sadly so, take for a D for the realization to sink in the WASes mind what the hell happened and why they made those types of choices.
As you well know, D isn't the end of DBing. There have been success stories even after D paperwork has been filed and the spouses moved out of the marital house.
For now, NDY's goal is to keep the house for it is his and their son's house. I think that is where the focus needs to be on at this stage.
