She never came home last night, but sent an email this morning apologizing for that, saying she didn't want to drive in the storms. Seemed odd to me that she apologized... I'm the one who keeps asking why she bothers coming home.

I wrote back and asked her to pick up a few groceries for when she did come home today, and she was quick to oblige. I invited the boys over for dinner tonight and asked my older son to cook his specialty, eggplant, assuming of course that the W wouldn't be here. But as she brought the groceries in, she said, "So, are we having the boys over for dinner tonight?"

I'm thinking she is going to be here all day, and maybe all night? This hasn't happened in a long time. But if she's been missing her bed, and missing being here to any extent, then I need to do my best to be pleasant and remind her that THIS is her home... even as she and the OW are steadily wrecking it...

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19