On silence and patience

[asitis]

I hear you, and I understand. But Sandi2 is also a powerful example of how a rebellious and headstrong WW can come around, and probably when her H was thinking exactly what you expressed. All you can do is keep standing up for what is right, doing the best you can, and you don't know where that will lead. Of course, you must steel yourself to the strong likelihood.

So, do you feel like your plan has not been working and that you have given your changes enough time to work? If so, what are you going to do differently? What changes are you going to make now? What do you think Sandi would tell you to change?

Why don't you lay out for us what DB steps you've been taking, and how long they've each been in play? Also, remind us of your baby steps to tell whether or not you're making progress, and how you are doing on those in light of those steps you made to achieve progress on them. Let's lay it back out and see what we can all come up with to change the script.

Cheers.