seperated 4 months, its now 9 months, oh and om

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Hang in there help67. There is a lot written here and in DB and DR about time being your friend. It is also easier to look at someone else situation with clarity than it is your own so maybe try to read some other threads. Vanilla gives great advice and by reading your topic I find help for my own situation and can see things you are doing that I need to do differently also. Stay focused on d12 and become the world's greatest father!