She told me she was getting tired of the accusations and I told her I have been tired of the secrecy. Not a real good morning or night.
"(Wife), when you aren't honest and transparent with me, I can only assume you are either still in contact with another man or that you want to be able to be. That doesn't work for me, and I can't be much clearer than that, so I guess it's up to you what you want to do about it. I'm going to live my life."