NH - I just wanted to say that I think I understand this relief that you feel. When whats been bottled up for so long gets released, there is finally relief, not even necessarily action, just some relief - and she just may be feeling the same way.
Originally Posted By: NH115
She asked me if we could live with this relaxed state for a while. I'm not sure what she means by that.
To me, and I've seen this in my world, this may be saying, ok I understand, but I would sure like to keep the brakes on this move - let's ignore all of that for now and calm down - Oh hello elephant.
Hang in there NH - I am rooting for you - this may not been your initial goal, but you have to be good to yourself.
I think you're right U-turn. She has not directly mentioned me moving out since, but she was talking this morning all over again about how she wants to feel connected to me but can't, and doesn't know how. It wasn't angry spew, but it was the same BS script over and over again.
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