NH - I just wanted to say that I think I understand this relief that you feel. When whats been bottled up for so long gets released, there is finally relief, not even necessarily action, just some relief - and she just may be feeling the same way.
Originally Posted By: NH115
She asked me if we could live with this relaxed state for a while. I'm not sure what she means by that.

To me, and I've seen this in my world, this may be saying, ok I understand, but I would sure like to keep the brakes on this move - let's ignore all of that for now and calm down - Oh hello elephant.

Hang in there NH - I am rooting for you - this may not been your initial goal, but you have to be good to yourself.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015