I have not read that book. I will take a look at it Toots. I am being more assertive, setting boundaries for myself, and letting go. It isn't the most comfortable thing for me, so I know it is a good direction for me to go in. Been working with a pastor friend of mine who emphasizes mind and spirit healing together. Incorporating 12 step recovery techniques into his marriage counseling and therapy. So far it is eye opening.
Me:35 W:37; S17 D15 D15 D1 D1 M:9 years T:11 BD 5/2/15 W moved out with her D15 our D1 D1 6/15/16 W filed for divorce 6/19/15 W moved back in 7/11/15