She is not ready to face the sitch and deal with the painful mess of her decisions. The only decision then for you is whether you want to press ahead slow or fast, depending on whether you want or think her coming around in time is possible and desirable.
Unfortunately asitis I really don't see her coming round, ever. As Sandi2 says about the rebellious streak in a WW, well my WW has always been both rebellious and headstrong even where her decisions are wrong. She just has no ability to turn around. So to her there is only one option and that is to destroy the marriage. Wither this is due to the A or that she just wants out is anyone's guess but that's the reality.
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I just wanted to stop by and thank you for your post in my thread earlier today. It made my day! I also wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I have not forgotten about you!
Thanks Bob, that means a lot. It really does.
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Big question is all the email activity a thawing in relations or just a way of validating her activity with OM?
No thawing. The email activity is actually rare. We only really communicate when it's about S9 and nothing else. She hasn't been in my company for quite some time now and I don't see that changing much.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
