TLee

You are not responsible for WW pain, hurt, fins or anything at all. She is a grown woman in a full blown A and trying to cake eat.

You will need to come to that realisation yourself and act, no one here or in your life can make this easier although we can support you.

I understand why you want to tell WW what you are going to do. If it's in the hope she will say "TLee I made a mistake, I love you and I am coming running" then you have expectations.

A number of things may happen - you could start the sweet cycle again and end up even more hurt. WW may spew rant threaten and blame and you will end up hurt. WW could get vindictive with the Fins and act unfairly and you will be hurt.

Look after you TLee, cut the fin tie before you advise WW or she does further damage.

Who has the car TLee? If it's with WW then expect fireworks. If it's in your possession the you may need to pay the loan before you sell the car.

Keep a detailed note of what you spend.

T if she describes you as a monster then you know she is saying that about herself. Record your conversation if you can and must do this by phone.

Personally I would not prewarn again, just do what you have to do.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 07/09/15 07:17 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW