Some days I can't imagine myself in another R and I don't mean that in a defeatist way. It's just difficult for me to imagine. Does anyone else ever feel that way?
GB, I do feel the same, and not just some days, most of the days. I like to be single too. I think it was easier to get into another R when I was young, after my first D. When you invest so many years into your M, it is just not easy to connect with somebody else on the same level. Only MLCers can get themselves into another R so quickly. But we all know that it is an illusion. Sometimes I do envy the people who can dust themselves up and get into another R fast. But… it is not who I am.
GB, I love reading your posts. I wish I could have more time and skill (writing is not that easy and fast for me) to respond.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
Tell you what. The first five years after Ms. Wonka left, I just had no desire to date even if I wanted to...the energy and all that was something that I was not up to at all.
Wonka, I have a couple more years to go until I can question myself on this, LOL.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
