seperated 4 months, its now 9 months, oh and om

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Same deal for me. W and I rarely fight/fought. Biggest blow up we had was when I caught W and OM together. Other than that, always civil but sometimes withdrawn. For her, she says the love just went away. Of course I don't believe that. We just didn't work on the relationship and then when the OM came into the picture and she became WW she's rewritten history and can't see past where she is at. I feel my W is confused as well - I suppose that's a good thing. Our W's need to figure it out. We need to DB to put them into a place where their confusion becomes clarity. Easier said than done.