I am keeping strong. Acting happy. Then i get texts like this.I will not continue to just live with family. The girls and I need our space and in order for me to provide that I will have to work full time. I want a logical solution to this and if you say not my problem I will explain to you why it very much is OUR problem. how do i respond to that
Your responses have to be with Actions not Words.
Can I ask why you had an EA? What are you doing to FIX that part of yourself?
Your marriage did not break overnight and is not going to be fixed unless you do a lot of very hard work.
How can you be the BEST DAD possible? What are things you can DO to show that?
The only answer I would give is to VALIDATE her feelings and requests. Anything else will not work.