Sorry to hear you are going though this. It is nice that you have someone telling you what is going through her mind right now. My wife has been confiding in friends and I hear 3rd hand that she is 100% ready for the divorce. That is all they say. I wish I could hear the crap she is really saying to them. I am sure most of it is lies to get validation from them. I don't even talk to those friends anymore. They could care less about my side of the story. It is like the EA does not matter to them. They think it is my fault, that I pushed her to it.
Anyways,I feel for you. Just keep chugging along and hopefully she will see the light soon. I know at times it seems hopeless when they have people to confide in and agree with their mentality. They can't see that those people don't have the understanding of what really happens when you have two young children and their parents divorce. I wish my would listen to the people that are telling her to work on this. Of course, just like the book says, she just pushes those people out of her life.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
