Hi Gan, interesting to get a bit of feedback about your H. It certainly doesn't sound as though he has anyone serious in the picture. It may be useful that he tries a little dating. Going out with a few other women and not feeling a connection may be something he needs to go through.

Good that you just feel 'whatever.' There would have been a time in my sitch where I was thrown for a loop at that kind of thing. I think now I have closed down to him somewhat emotionally. Whether that could open up again I'm not sure.

Good that OMUG came back to you. He is right that there's no need to over think things. You're an independent woman who can make new male friends and be clear about her needs and what she does and doesn't want in her life.

Good for you Gan!! T xx

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