Been there ... done that. You can only control what you do, and how you react to these things. Like I said .. those seeds were planted .. freshly planted.
Right now she is high on the A drug, and very well high on the "New Chapter" drug ... a M can not compete short term with this rush, just can't. However all she is building on has an extremely weak foundation, you know this.
The sporty sports model? Well ... again, her choice and her decision right... not your circus not your monkey.
I feel ya though, I really do, remember you have to let God work a bit, trust what he has in store for you.