Thanks for stopping in again. What I mean by mediation is that it's basically the cheap mans version of the L process. But I'll take your advice and leave it be for now.
As for the house, lets's hope she accepts.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.