Eventhough my "Days of our Live's" episode took a serious plot twist I totally get where you are at.
I dipped a pinkie toe in the online date scene ... went out with a couple of gals ... after weeding out 100's of terrifying cat-lady types. I did this I think just to try to sort myself at first, but quickly realized ... nope, doing my thing. There was a sense of freedom about it, and I was completely cool with being single and working on me. I do not think there is one ounce wrong with that, I actually think you are in a healthier spot than one who would remotely have a timeline for 'the one' and when they should show up.
Looking forward to the story as you have a gift in this area.