Ok, quick update for you all and looking for some opinions.
Fist, the bank have agreed in principle to lend me the money. This will mean I get to keep the house should WW accept the offer. Fortunately she has already via her L indicated that this would be ok.
Second. Small burst of email activity. Mostly around S9 which is fine but apparently there has been activity between the L's which I haven't seen yet (I know I know). Anyway WW offered to send them onto me. I just said no, that's fine let the L's handle it. Thoughts? Was this the right thing to say?
Second. I really want to say to her that getting the L's involved was an unnecessary and expensive move (I don't want to appear to be arguing with her) and that IMO using mediation is the better option as it's less expensive. Please note that in this country Mediation can be used to facilitate the split and not reconciliation.
Opinions would be very welcome.
Thanks
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
