Matt, I'm sorry for what you are going through. You and I have some similar problems. My D21 never hears from her mother. But I am not sure she wants to right now after she sold D21's car and kept the money so she can move. D12 still talks to her mom at night, but if she ever tries talking about her feelings her mom has to go. When I told STBX about D12 sleep problems, going to see a counselor and possibly having to go on anti depressants, STBX response was "ok". They don't care about anything but themselves right now. Keep trying with your other D. She will need you. She is at that age where her friends are important to her. But she will also need her Dad. If she knows you are there, she will reach out. Hang in there! Take care of yourself also. I got on anti depressants awhile ago and I am glad I did. Helps me to get through the tough times so I can be there for my kids.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"