All I Wanna Do Is..Get A Little Closer #12

[Georgiabelle]

Thanks Joe (you made me laugh!), my girl Mighty, and my boy Cali. It's always great to have you guys pop by. Next time bring cookies.

Just thinking out loud....I read on threads where people "can't wait to date" or say "they envision their next R" and I don't do that. I am going to sound ridiculously full of myself for a minute so feel free to throw shade. I am intelligent, funny, successful, society tells me I'm pretty, and a devoted mother and friend. I have tons of male friends I enjoy being around. I'm a gosh darn good catch. However, (and I think this is a good thing for the time being)I don't think much about what my future R will look like. As Job frequently points out, I assume I may meet someone when I least expect it and right now, I'm just enjoying my life. And for the first time in my life, I'm okay being single. I kind of like it. I'm sure I will want something one day and right now I'm fine. I do like the attention I get from guys, however, I don't "crave" it or feel I "must" have it like I have in the past. Not sure if that makes sense.

Perhaps it's because I only have a few female friends and one that I referenced earlier is looking for "the one." Nothing wrong with that. It's just interesting to watch. She has goals and a timeline and well....I just watch. I still have things to work on and I'm certainly not for everyone. However, that's okay too. Some days I can't imagine myself in another R and I don't mean that in a defeatist way. It's just difficult for me to imagine. Does anyone else ever feel that way?

I have a funny story to share soon about a friend of one of my guy friends. I think you guys will enjoy that one.

My brother and niece visit this weekend. They are helping me with some projects and we will have some laughs.

I read some threads and my heart breaks for the newbies. It does get better. Yes, you have to walk thru the caca (just make sure you don't wear the good shoes) to get to the fun side.

Positive energy to all:)