Hi Teach, I am just reading your situation now. I had a question for you- you said your H is depressed and your coach recommended some books. Did you read them? Were they helpful? If you could recommend any to me I would read them. My husband is depressed too, he is on antidepressants and I think they are starting to work. Its taken some trial and error, increasing a dosage, adding a second antidepressant, but I think it is making a difference although he still is very angry with me.
