Thanks again asitis! I was thinking about the book, but there's nothing that says I can't play solitaire if my H doesn't want to talk. We'll let my little guy stay up late enough for some dark time especially to use his new camping flashlight.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out