I NEED help understanding why he seems to enjoy/not care that I am not asking for hugs, cuddling, texting him, asking to spend time together, ect. He doestnt seem to care if i dont talk to him text him ask to spend time ect. It makes me very sad.
Because he isn't in a place to want that right now. He's said he is done with the relationship with you. So all you can do right now is give him that space. He can't miss you if you are always there. Nothing will change until the dynamic of the relationship changes. And it won't happen overnight. It's taken you 13 years to get to this point - it won't change completely in 13 hours. Slow, measured change.
