Like a jigsaw puzzle

[mahhhty]

There shouldn't be any urgency. You need to be patient and focus on you and having fun when together. The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. It is green where you water it.

As MWD always says... if you wanted to have a bad time with her you know what to say (the bad things to push her buttons... perhaps telling her she is like her mother). So revisit your goals with your actions in mind.

Get her to spend this weekend down here again.
- I think this is a fine start, but what will you be doing to enable this. What do you need to do to make this happen? Ask her? Create a loving environment where she chooses to stay? Ask yourself these questions for each goal.