I forgot I could use my rubberband for the A/OW. I guess I was thinking if the OW was married her H could put pressure on her if he found out and it might die a faster death. But you are right, H would just look for medication elsewhere.
I know I have read on here that people say to expect time wise for it to take approximately one month for every year of marriage. Is that just the time typically the for spouse to be willing to R? Regardless, have a ways to go. PATIENCE.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015