This is very good news, it seems that she is trying to help herself now. Just keep in mind that the meds take some time to kick in and work properly to help her.
You may see even more depression before it start getting better. But, the important thing is that she will certainly take the edge away.
Hi Rd,
First time I've checked in on you in a few days. I agree with Dear V and Pink17...it is a start.
Hang in there, mate, and keep moving forward. I know you CAN do this.
I will dedicate a prayer to you and your W as soon as I post this.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Vanillia. I hope this helps ber back on track with her life. Your are hereby adopted My kids are the winners here
Pink. Thank you for everything. And I really don't care what you look like It's what's inside that matters. Don't get me wrong. It doesn't hurt you resemble Selma !!! !!
Bob. Thank you and I appreciate you always kind words
Sunny It a step in the right direction for sure. Thanks for keeping up on my sitch
I'm really pleased your W is getting some help at last. Im not one for taking medication but I've also never seen the point of not taking help when it's offered. Hopefully its the first step in her road to recover, and as the saying goes 'every journey starts with a first step'.
Whatever it means for you and your situation, its good for your kids and just on a pure human level noone should be struggling like your W has been.
Just going back a post or two, personally I think you were OK to say you miss her and I don't think you should apologise for it. You didn't say it to make her feel bad, you said what you genuinely felt and you shouldn't have to apologise for your feelings.
Think of it as keeping the path smooth and well lit.
Sounding good about the bike rides, more RD GAL please!!!!
And I'm sure lanzarote will be awesome. I liked the volcano park but then I love that sort of thing.
Have a good day
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
hi Jim , thanks for posting mate, I really pleased that she is getting some help. I kmow we can only believe so much of what they say but EXW has seemed really lost and very unhappy.
I don't know what it will mean for her but I hope she gets some peace and is able to see what she is doing in regards to her own life. If she wants to go down any road with her life , I would hope she choses with a clear mind.
The volcanos sound great and we are staying next to a water park so that should be awesome as well
The bike is always fun and takes you away from the sitch for a while.
Hi RD, I was pleased to see that your W has accepted some help. It is a good step that she has acknowledged she feels pretty rotten AND has done something about it too. I feel that for ages she has saying how low she feels, but hasn't managed to do anything positive in terms of moving towards a place of greater happiness.
Hopefully the ADs will help her move towards this....
Take care RD.....xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus