Thanks Zephyr,

Yeah. I was happy to understand when I first realized that through that text, a boundary was being pushed. And I made it clear.

In doing so, I was accused of 'making him feel like a creep,' putting out ultimatums, etc. etc.

I feel awful that this person is hurting so bad, but at the same time, I think I handled it as best I could out of respect to his wife, and myself.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.