I have read where some people refer to the 37 rules as their 180's.
Trying "risky" things could be dangerous, especially if you are trying to impress her. Remember, you are a father of two.....so take that into account and act responsible. Stay balanced and don't get stupid. Example, getting a tattoo on your face!
Speaking of getting a tattoo, (to anyone who may be considering it),I suggest you never have the name of anyone tattooed on your body, unless it is the name of your child. Too many OS will change, and then the tattooed person has to carry their name on their body. And in case you are curious......no, I don't have any tattoos. (ha)
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!