Just some questions from me concerning your 3rd hand intel .... does it go both ways, is this person reporting back to W .. if so .. be VERY careful what you ask and more so what you share .... look at it from above, it looks like a needy husband looking for reassurance his W still wants him = NOT ATTRACTIVE
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And this is the trick. Finding that balance. The whole hope is that she pulls me back into reconnecting. That she reaches out and asks as opposed to me asking. I want to reinforce that behavior. Its so hard to know when to do it and not come across too eager while being, "ya, sure!" and positive.
T33 .... advice on this. She can not miss you when you are still in her face all the time.
Read Sandis WW threads ... then read em again... at some point they must feel they are going to lose you ... she has you right where she wants you, and if OM would wake up and love her like she thinks he does ... where would she be>? Even though OM might be out of the picture .. your W is not just going to mourn the loss, get over it and 'pull you back into reconnecting' .... not the way you are approaching this.
