Thanks WhyUs,

Ya, it's very weird. She's still "getting over" the other relationship. Obviously, I'm hopefully it continues and she doesn't relapse back into it (currently the OM has ended it. Hoping he doesn't change his mind and go back into it). It's all just so recent, I'm trying so hard to mitigate expectations. One day at a time is the mantra.

I realize it could take weeks or longer for her to fully get over it.

Detaching is weird, and I struggle when I'm along or at work. I do my best for PMA when we're together and am just happy go-lucky and crazy showing how much fun I am/can be.


Me: early 30s Her: same
M: 5+yrs T:10+yrs
D (2): under 10s
OM PA - Began Apr/15
A Discovered/ILYBINILWY: Start of May
Removed ring: End of June