Summer of Growth and Acceptance

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I need some help with obsessing with A and OW. It is driving me crazy that I don't know who this person is. I think I am hoping to find out that this person is married so that she seems so that she seems like less of a threat. I also have this desire to catch them red handed so my H can no longer deny what is really going on and that it die out faster. So much so that I am contemplating fudging when I am coming home from next work trip. Am I crazy for thinking this way?? I am just having a really hard time focusing on A, especially since the OW has been brought into my home.

Also, any thoughts on having H in home versus telling him he needs to leave until he is ready to end A and work on M?

I really am focusing on myself for the most part and detaching from H. It is the A I am having a hard time dropping and detaching from. I know this OW holds nothing over me and is just medication for H. But if it she is more than medication? I guess I think if she were not in the picture, my H would try to engage more and try to work on himself and M.

Someone, please set me straight!