Sounds a lot like my situation while but my wife was hiding her EA. We acted the same way with each other as far as being around each other and not really interacting. I wish I had detached myself at that time. I would slip up at least every other day and beg, cry and plea. Don't fall into that mode.
Good Luck
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
