Glad this thread has some traction! I said a special prayer at Mass this morning for all of you, and for your spouses.
I also, obviously, said a lot of prayers for my own W this morning. If you're interested in reading how I got a surprisingly swift answer to those prayers, please check it out on my thread.
Prayer works, I absolutely believe it. God bless you all.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19