hmmmm. You are right I guess I just feel rude if he asks how my day is not asking him how his day was. but i do see what you are saying. As for keeping myself out of these situations I am not sure how to do that I will read the boundaries thread. It is hard when i sit somewhere and he just sits down or lays down beside me and uses me as a foot rest. I did stay on my own side of the bed last night. I NEED help understanding why he seems to enjoy/not care that I am not asking for hugs, cuddling, texting him, asking to spend time together, ect. He doestnt seem to care if i dont talk to him text him ask to spend time ect. It makes me very sad.
