I am doing better today. The pain from Wednesday's surgery is healing. My fever is gone. I've been able to rest and recuperate for the past few days.

Last night "The Bachelorette" was on, and at the end of the show W texted me to disagree with with Katelyn's kicking off of one of the guys, and we had traded a few texts about the show.

I was careful with my comments, staying away from Katelyn who slept with one of guys, and experienced guilt and shame from doing this. And one of the guys going thru intense jealousy. W brought up that one of her favs was a guy who was very protective of Katelyn in a spooky house - and a common attack W brought against me was that I was not protective of her.

I am trying to set up up a weekend up north with my family (not W) and kids I hope it all works out.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace