Oh, and she left shampoo, soap, and stuff in the shower...Mean something?
It is just...soap...fer cryin' out loud! Your attention is in the wrong place.
Originally Posted By: Squiggy
Let's get goals out first: 1. Get her to spend this weekend down here again. 2. Get more hugs. 3. Maybe have her hold my hand? 4. More laughter (I was pretty good at that this weekend). 5. More talk about solving some problems we will face when she moves back. 6. See about her spending less time on the phone (Facebook), even though she shared a fair amount with me. 7. Make Retrouaville happen (I visited this with her again)
It is all about HER which you cannot control. I would change those goals to be about WHAT actions you can do to improve relations with W and bring you closer to the big goal.
