Yeah - I understand the balance of what we both contributed during our time together. The dynamic have changed over time as they do for everyone - the newest phase - the one where she makes more $ is the only one she may be considering though. I think she will see this as me saying - W, you had an affair, so you owe me this. I live in a no fault state, and the A has no bearing on anything. But I do get the idea that everything is ours and our plan for the future.
Thank you for your support Cali
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015