Sounds like you need to detach. You are going to push her away if you keep trying so hard. Let her see you are strong and confident. Stop the pressure. I know from experience, it only makes thing worse.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."