Hi RD,

I'm really pleased your W is getting some help at last. Im not one for taking medication but I've also never seen the point of not taking help when it's offered. Hopefully its the first step in her road to recover, and as the saying goes 'every journey starts with a first step'.

Whatever it means for you and your situation, its good for your kids and just on a pure human level noone should be struggling like your W has been.

Just going back a post or two, personally I think you were OK to say you miss her and I don't think you should apologise for it. You didn't say it to make her feel bad, you said what you genuinely felt and you shouldn't have to apologise for your feelings.

Think of it as keeping the path smooth and well lit.

Sounding good about the bike rides, more RD GAL please!!!!

And I'm sure lanzarote will be awesome. I liked the volcano park but then I love that sort of thing.

Have a good day smile


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress