Can it be another round?

[BrightFuture]

AJ, yes, I thought that she was just a friend too. Until she came up to me and my GF back in April and said that she and my H took a trip with the group of people, and they “got married” on the road and shared the room at the hotels along the way. She might be helping the “poor” thing, but does she want me to know. I and my GF both thought that it was intentional what she told us. Plus… I’ve heard other weird things… And, my mutual friends think that it is strange too. Also, the only people who I trust (so does H) to take care of the things at the condo are my mutual friends. They’ve been doing it for years and as far as I know they haven’t “resigned” from that yet.

I don’t want any drama. This is why I’m going to stay away from this woman as much as I can. If H needs to get the TV hooked up, he can absolutely do it himself. I’m surprised he hasn’t done it already.

Job, thanks for reminding me about the opposites. I think I’m confused about it because not everything that H has been doing now are the opposites of the before. He always was very social, but in person. Now it is both, in person and on social media. The biggest “opposite” for him is to have a smart phone (and not smashing it against the wall yet, LOL) and be on FB. But, he is still private about his feelings and thoughts. My mutual friends said that he doesn’t talk about our R and what he thinks at all. You right about him not being rational though, I completely agree with that.