I know exactly what you are saying. The question is why? Why does this happen? Our kids have compared her to a teenager. Everyone sees it. What happened to my smart, beautiful woman?
Hi Prowl,
I have the exact same questions you have about your W regarding my W. My IC said something very similar to what Matt posted earlier today: "Think of her as a teenager going through full rebellion. She's going to lash out at you as much as possible."
Most likely, your W is doing this to test you and/or because she feels guilty about the situation so she lashes out at you to make things appear it's all your fault. When there is an issue between 2 people, it is never 100% 1 person's fault. All on this board know that, yet when your wayward spouse spews their lies, it's more important than ever to keep that in mind. It helps me get through many rough times.
Hang in there, please. The door hasn't completely shut on you yet.
Sending positive thoughts your way.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
